A Novice's Guide to Bondage Toys

First off, if your partner hasn’t talked about bondage games with you, then you want to have that discussion first. Bondage isn’t something that you can just pull out for some people. Sit down with your partner and talk about your interest to see what their reaction is. Got a good reaction? Then here’s what you need.

Blindfolds

You may want to ease yourself and your partner into bondage by starting with the bare essentials and moving on up in terms of restraint and sensory deprivation. Starting with blindfold is a way to increase the excitement without restricting movement (yet). Your ‘victim’ will have no idea where you are or what to expect next. A basic blindfold can be something as simple as a handkerchief or something of a higher quality as a leather model. What’s better about the blindfolds with the defined shape is that they don’t tend to move during sex and thus, you don’t have the interruption of having to keep putting it on.

Restraints

The next level in bondage play is usually some form of restraints. If you’re both very excited about getting started, then you can use these first without the blindfold option. Again, you can go simple with arm and leg restraints or you can but something a little sturdier that’s going to stay in place. These black, high quality ones work for both the wrists and the ankles to make sure that your helpless ‘victim’ can’t move while you taunt and tease and pleasure him or her (yes, this isn’t just for one or the other). Using the restraints together with the blindfold add a sense of the unknown to the person being restrained. Not only are they at the mercy of you and whatever you plan to do, but they also have no idea what you will do next because they can’t see either.

Whips and Paddles

If you’re looking for something even more exciting, then you may want to look at the various whips and paddles that are available. Not only do these cause the person who is being whipped or paddled to become more sensitive, but a lot of people find this painful experience highly erotic. When you’re fist beginning though, take it easy. It will take time to build up a tolerance for a lot of paddling. Stick to the ‘thicker’ areas first (buttocks usually) before you move onto anywhere more sensitive (nipples and genitals).

Furniture and Harnesses

Many bondage connoisseurs enjoy a little more fun than the ‘everyday’ blindfolds and restraints can offer. Furniture that’s designed to increase the vulnerability of the ‘victim’ can enhance the entire bondage experience. Many couples find that pieces that lift and keep the genital area there are just the thing. These are also good pieces to own because you can use them to help with any oral fun that’s going on (for both genders, of course). Harnesses are another way to rev up a bondage play session. They help to further restrict the partner and keep them more focused on the sexual response, rather than anything else. Some people like to have harness from the ceiling to make the restricted partner hang without contact to the ground.

Collars

Most people associate bondage with someone wearing a collar as a sign that they are at the will of the other, but this isn’t necessary. However, when you are in the midst of bondage play, it can be quite erotic to be led around by your partner. Here is just one of the many sexy looking and functional collars. Bondage play can be a great way to spice up a relationship, but should never be something that’s forced onto someone. Making sure to sit down and have a talk with your sexual partner (outside of the bedroom is best) will help to see how far you want to go. Farther can be very, very good.

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